1QQ is a conversation card game designed to help you build deeper connections through meaningful questions. Whether you're playing with friends, family, romantic partners, or colleagues, this guide will help you get started and make the most of your experience.
Select a question pack that matches your group's comfort level and goals. Start with "Getting to Know You" for new connections, or choose "Deeper Connections" if your group already knows each other well. Each pack is designed for specific relationship contexts and conversation depths.
As the Host: Click "Create New Room," enter your name, and share the room code or QR code with other players. You'll control when the game starts.
As a Player: Enter the room code shared by your host, add your name, and wait in the lobby until everyone has joined. On mobile devices, you can also scan the QR code to join instantly.
Players take turns drawing question cards. When it's your turn, tap any category to draw a card. Read the question aloud to the group. Each question type has different rules for who answers—pay attention to the card instructions!
Answer thoughtfully and listen actively. The magic of 1QQ happens in the conversations that follow each question. Ask follow-up questions, share related stories, and give everyone time to contribute. There's no time limit— take as long as you need for meaningful dialogue.
Different question cards have different rules for who answers. Pay attention to the indicator on each card:
The card drawer chooses one person to answer the question. Great for directing conversations to specific people.
All players in the group answer the question, usually going around in a circle. Perfect for group sharing.
Only the person who drew the card answers. Others listen and can ask follow-up questions.
Choose between two options and explain your reasoning. Everyone typically shares their choice.
Simple yes/no questions about boundaries and preferences. Everyone answers and can explain why.
Each game generates a unique room code (like "ABCD"). Players can enter this code to join, or scan the QR code with their phone camera for instant access. Share the code via text, email, or show the QR code on your screen.
Each player has 2 skips per game. Use them if a question feels too personal or uncomfortable. There's no shame in skipping—respecting boundaries is important for building trust.
View all the questions your group has discussed during the game. This is helpful for referencing earlier conversations or reflecting on the experience afterward.
1QQ supports English, Spanish, French, Japanese, Korean, and Chinese. Each player can view questions in their preferred language, making cross-cultural conversations easier.
Some question packs require authentication or purchase. Premium packs offer specialized questions for specific contexts like couples therapy, professional development, or advanced intimacy building.
Everyone in the same room, passing a phone or tablet around, or each using their own device. Perfect for dinner parties, game nights, or family gatherings.
Connect via video call while playing 1QQ together remotely. Great for long-distance friends, remote teams, or couples in different locations.
Just two people exploring deeper questions together. Use the "36 Questions" pack for a research-backed path to intimacy, or try other packs based on your relationship stage.
Professional context for colleagues to connect on a human level. Choose appropriate packs that balance professional boundaries with meaningful connection.
Make sure they're entering the room code correctly (it's case-insensitive). If issues persist, try creating a new room. Check that all players have stable internet connections.
Yes! Players can join mid-game using the room code. They'll be added to the turn rotation and can participate immediately.
The game continues without them. If they rejoin with the same name and room code, they'll be back in the game with their progress preserved.
It varies widely based on group size and conversation depth. Some groups spend 5-10 minutes per card, others just 2-3 minutes. A typical game with 4 people might last 45-90 minutes.
Absolutely! 1QQ works great with just 2 players, especially for couples or close friends. The conversation tends to go even deeper with smaller groups.
Now that you know how to play, gather your group and start building deeper connections. Remember, the goal isn't to finish the deck—it's to have meaningful conversations that bring you closer together.
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