Turn awkward silences into genuine chemistry with a fun question game designed specifically for first dates
β No app download β Works for in-person & virtual dates β Takes 30 seconds to start
No more boring job talk or weather comments. Our questions reveal personality, values, and quirks - the stuff that actually creates chemistry. Find out if you vibe in 30 minutes instead of 3 dates.
First dates are nerve-wracking. Instead of scrambling for what to say next, you both have prompts to work from. It feels more like a fun game than an interview, which = less anxiety, more fun.
Not random icebreakers. Each question is crafted to reveal something meaningful while keeping it light and playful. Think "thoughtful" not "therapy session."
Don't pull out a board game on a first date - that's weird. Just casually say "want to try this question game I found?" and open it on your phone. Feels natural, not forced.
Meeting someone from a dating app? Video first dates can be extra awkward. This game makes virtual dates feel interactive and fun instead of just staring at each other.
Questions reveal deal-breakers and green flags fast. If your values don't align, you'll know within an hour instead of wasting weeks. If they do align, the chemistry will be obvious.
Choose "Getting to Know You" for first dates (perfect balance of fun and meaningful). Save "Deeper Connections" or "36 Questions to Fall in Love" for later dates when you're more comfortable.
After initial small talk, casually say something like: "I found this fun question game - want to try it? It beats the usual first date script." Most people are relieved to have structure.
One person draws a question card, both people answer. Or draw cards for each other. There's no right way - just keep the conversation flowing. Skip any question that feels too much.
Don't treat it like rapid-fire Q&A. Ask follow-ups, tell related stories, laugh together. The questions are conversation starters, not a checklist. Put the phone down when the vibe is flowing.
First date this week? Get the questions ready now.
Get First Date Questions βHere's what the questions actually look like - designed to be interesting without being too intense:
"What's something you're weirdly competitive about?"
β Playful, reveals personality, usually leads to funny stories
"If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be?"
β Classic but effective - reveals values and interests
"What's the last thing that made you laugh really hard?"
β Shows sense of humor, often leads to sharing funny content
"What's a childhood memory that still makes you smile?"
β Creates warmth and nostalgia, shows what they value
"Would you rather: Travel to the past or the future?"
β Fun hypothetical that reveals whether they're nostalgic or forward-thinking
"What's something you believed as a kid that turned out to be completely wrong?"
β Usually hilarious, shows self-awareness and humility
Plus 494 more questions across different styles and depths!
Pull it out 15-20 minutes in when the small talk runs dry. "Want to make this more interesting?" Perfect for sitting across from each other.
Use it while waiting for food or between courses. Turns potential awkward pauses into engaging conversation. Much better than scrolling on your phone.
Draw a question at each stop (new coffee shop, park bench, art piece). Makes the walk/activity more memorable and gives structure to the time together.
Absolute game-changer for video dates. Both join the same room code. Takes away the "staring at each other awkwardly through a screen" feeling.
If you're past the "public place" stage and hanging at someone's place. Perfect with wine, takeout, or just sitting on the couch. Keeps conversation flowing.
Going somewhere together? Draw questions during the drive. Way better than music and silence. You'll arrive feeling like you've known each other forever.
"Used this on a first date from Hinge and we ended up talking for 4 hours straight. We're going on date #5 this weekend. 10/10 recommend."
- Alex, 27, San Francisco
"I'm terrible at first dates and usually run out of things to say after 30 minutes. This saved me from awkward silence and actually made the date fun instead of stressful."
- Jordan, 24, New York
"My girlfriend and I used this on our first date 6 months ago. We still reference our answers from that night. It's honestly how we fell for each other so fast."
- Mike, 29, Austin
"Perfect for virtual first dates. I was so nervous about running out of things to say on video call, but this made it feel natural and fun. We're meeting in person next week!"
- Sarah, 25, Chicago
Not if you frame it casually! Say something like "I found this fun question thing - want to try it?" Most people are actually relieved to have conversation help. First dates are awkward for everyone.
20-30 minutes into the date, after you've covered the basics (where you're from, what you do). Or use it to save a lull in conversation. Don't lead with it immediately - that's too much.
Start with the "Getting to Know You" pack - it's light and playful, not deep or serious. If a question feels too much, just skip it and draw another. You control the vibe.
Nope! Just open 1qq.me on your phone browser. Takes 30 seconds. No download, no signup, totally free. You can even test it out before your date.
Yes! One person creates a room, shares the code, and you both join. You can take turns drawing from your own phones. Or just use one phone and pass it back and forth - both work great.
Then keep doing what you're doing! This is for when you want structure or when conversation naturally slows down. If you're vibing without it, you don't need it. Save it for date #2.
Stop stressing about what to talk about. Get conversation-starting questions ready in 30 seconds.
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